Sleep...wonderful sleep....

It 7: and the Muslim guy calling to prayers, 30 AM and all is quite, except for the bird who is trying to eat our window, the roosters and the odd crazy person selling stuff on the street.  Sophie and Tammy are still asleep.  Sophie went to bed at about 10 last night, then a feeding at 1:45 and another at around 4 and that's it.  She's still sleeping.  So happy she must have been tired and even more important is probably feeling better, I know that I am. It's going to be a good day.

I really miss my other daughter Josina, I hope to Skype with her Saturday morning. Breakfast should be here in a few minutes.  I guess that mean I have to pant up, oops too much info, nobody needs to know I blog without pants on.

Better Day

Thanks for the support after a tough night and morning.  Solomon from MoT picked us up at 2:00 to go shopping and to go to the foot of a mountain.  Sophie was till asleep so we woke her and she was fantastic all afternoon, 2 hours.  We went to a shop that sells goods made by the blind and handicapped.  The stuff wqas great and we bought lots.  Wicked storm when we went to the Post Office area market but it ended quick enough.  This evening we went out for dinner with Solomon and another couple from New Brunswick who just got their 4 year old daughter. Great food and entertainment.  I have to confess that I am a little drunk though.  You know that Tej (honey wine) has a kick but you never believe.  Also the St George beer and brandy primer. Sophie even fell asleep at the restaurant and Tammy just put her down.  Here's hopping for a better night.

Tough night

Well we only had a few hours sleep thanks to Sophie.  It is so difficult to admit especially after all the years of praying and waiting but I guess its like having any other kid.  Please go the #$%# to sleep.  We think she is probably a bit scared when she stirs in the night and is someplace unfamiliar.  No amount of rocking could get her back to sleep.  Very frustrating.  On top of it all Tammy has some serious sinus issues right now too.  At about 6:00 AM we gave up, we'd been up since 4:00 AM.  I took a shower and we packed up Sophie in the carrier and at 6:40 I was off for a walk.  Tammy stayed back to get some rest/sleep.  We walked with Sophie strapped to my chest for about 2km to Kaldi's, the Starbucks ripoff, for a coffee and some french toast.  I was the first customer there. Then we had to go to a market to get formula.

I get a lot of different reactions on the street when carrying Sophie.  In Ethiopia doing this is woman's work so the young hang abouts on the street, I am sure are mocking me.  I get a little negative sneers from the lower educated type people. I guess that I will also get negative looks and comments back home too so this will be good training.  This morning was also very good and encouraging.  I was walking past the Dembel mall and felt someone looking at us.  There was a 30 something, well dressed couple who stopped entering the building just to look at us pass by.  I looked back and they both had huge smiles, nodding with approval and she gave us two thumbs up.  It brought tears to my eyes. Later a company bus bring people to work passed and the occupants were smiling, waving, giving thumbs up and even applauding us.  Even here you get both horrible and great responses.  I actually just prefer to walk down the road without any reaction.

This afternoon Solomon will take us out shopping, to Entoto Mountain and later for a traditional dinner.

Claire, you should ask for this.  Also the MoT does not keep you occupied.  We can give you pointers on what to do and how to get around.  Maybe when we get back we can get on the phone with you.  we have a great driver, Marcos,  he will take you anywhere and he usually does not charge enough.

I think we are feeling a little guilty being upset about the lack of sleep and being frustrated because Sophie was so hard to get.  She is our daughter just like any of you have and we feel and go through the same things, good and bad.  Please don't take this the wrong way but it has been an incredible few days but also extremely difficult and we need a few minutes to vent.

Feeling Better Now and Adjusting

We've had Sophie for two complete days now and have determined that she is a real Mommy's girl.  The first night, Tuesday, was tough she barely slept for 2 hours at a time before waking for a feeding.  The next day Tammy and I awoke and were both quite ill, traveller's stomach thing (figure it out).  We did not go anywhere, couldn't really go anywhere or eat.  Between being sick and Sophie teething it was a trying day for all. On top of it all we had quite a few power outages, therefore no internet, facebook or blogging or Skype.  I am glad that I had a book.  Last night, Wednesday, was a little better, Sophie was up 3 times but she is sleeping longer between naps. Yeah!

Today we woke feeling better but still at maybe only 75%.  We hired Marcos to take us to Lufthansa so we could get a ticket for Sophie but their internet was down.  On Monday Tammy had seen a sign about Wheat grass juice and how one shot is the equivalent of 1kg of vegetables.  So we went back to the Limetree Cafe in the Boston Partners Building on Bole near the airport and has this juice plus fruit purees.  Yummy and healthy.  Then back to the hotel, and hoping that Sophie would nap but she didn't really.  At lunch we walked the 1.5 km to La Parisienne Cafe.  The waitresses there just love Sophie.  It is customary in Ethiopian restaurants that if you have a little baby the staff will hold and care for the baby while you dine.  It was a bit freaky but wee kept our eyes on her.  Sophie loves it when daddy has her in the carrier close to daddy's chest.  She loves to look around and take it all in.She fell asleep in it before we got back to the hotel.  Later in the PM Mommy wanted to put our tired girl down for a nap so she could sleep too.  I went out for a walk, for a coffee and to the bank but when I got back Sophie had only slept for 15 minutes. 

Around dinner time we Skyped with Josina and her Auntie at home for a few minutes.  We really miss Josina, that is really tough even though she is in great hands and having fun.  We can`t wait to she her and give her squishy hugs. This evening we went for dinner and Sophie seems to love it when we go out. She was wailing in the room for no apparent reason but as soon as «i crossed the threshold of the room she was instantly happy.  At the Restaurant, Cloud 9, she was also great although very tired.  As soon as we got back Tammy gave her a bottle and she went right down.  Let`s hope she has a good night.

Tomorrow, Solomon, from the agency will take us out for some sight seeing, shopping and in the evening for a traditional Ethiopian dinner.  Can`t wait.

Weather for the last two days has been about 20, cloudy (mostly), humid and lots of storms with lightening, thunder and a fair amount of rain.

My glass of brandy calls me now.  Until the next time....

Pictures

Fleabag, asylum hotel in Harar, Sophie's birthplace. We stayed here 2 nights, cockroaches and all...thanks for killing them Tammy.

With our Harar guide Abdul 

A typically marketplace in Harar.  A picture does not tell the story of the heat, noise, crowd and the aroma's of the food, spices and pollution.

Yes those are really wild hyenas that we feeding!

Our new friends from New York, he is originally from Ethiopia.

SOPHIE!

Mommy meets Sophie

What an incredible day, I was able to witness Tammy meet our daughter Sophie for the very first time.  That was awesome, amazing and humbling.  Uploading pictures on the blog is really difficult so I will try to Facebook them. If you are not a FB friend please request. Sophie has grown so much in the last six weeks and she is so cute. She really likes her mommy. Shortly after getting there Tammy was bottle feeding Sophie and then Sophie fell asleep in her arms, mommy has till got it. It was amazing how she recognized my voice and was always trying to see where it was coming from. She can also crawl a little bit now. Apparently in her crib she pulls herself up to stand as well. Before we went to the transition home Tammy and decided that we were not going to take her that day, rather we would wait until the next day. We felt that this way Sophie would recognize both of us when we take her away. Also it was pretty emotional for us as well and this way we could digest things as well. They had a coffee ceremony for us and Tammy even drank a cup, in 13 years I have never seen Tammy drink a coffee. She said she liked it too, I asked them not to make it so strong and put a bit of sugar in it too.

 

We arrived back at Afroland at noon. By about 1:00 we ventured out for lunch to a place that was recommended call the Limetree. It was further than we thought and took about 40 minutes to walk there. The sandwiches were worth the wait, yummy. On the main floor there was a western style spa where we thought we would get pampered. Tammy got a manicure and I got a massage. Twice during Tammy's manicure the power went out and they completed the work by candlelight. I got brought into the basement which they designed like caves, very cool. A woman came in to wash my feet then Davi came in. My first mansage. He was quite good. The bill for both of us was about $20.

 

After leaving there we went to the supermarket to purchase Sophie's food for while we are here. They transition home showed us exactly what she has been eating so we could buy the same brands and stuff. We bought a couple of bags of cereal, some pasta and formula for Sophie, chips and chocolate for Tammy and a bottle of Brandy for me.

 

When we went for dinner last night the power went out again but that's normal here. At the hotel the backup generator powers the lights but not the plugs. Went to bed and now here we are trying to wait for the internet again.

 

We did a little shopping at Inga Supermarket to buy diapers for the transition home and mineral oil for Sophie's hair. It looks like the net is back up so I will try to post this.

 

This morning, Tuesday we will pick up Sophie and she will be with us permanently. Yeah!

Last Night as a Family of Three

Just got back from Harar this evening.  We left on Friday and flew to Dire Dawa, a very hot city in the valley near Harar.  We took a shared cab, a minivan with about 15 passengers, to Harar. It took an hour but the driving is crazy, pass whenever and where ever you like, just watch out for goats and donkeys.  We were booked in the Ras Hotel, biggest dump I have ever been in.  Tammy killed a cockroach everyday.  We only had water from 6:00AM -8:00 AM and then from 7:00 PM - 10:00 PM.   It was fairly dirty.  Yuch.  Lonely Planet described it as a cross between a dorm and an insane asylum, more towards the asylum in my opinion.  But we sucked it up and stayed for two nights.  The morning shower was just a trickle of water.  The only good thing was we discovered a new breakfast, a large fried pancake that is sorta like puffed pastry served with the best honey I have ever tasted.  Harar is an amazing place but very dirty.  The old walled city is one square km but has more than 80 mosques and a couple of churches.  We hired a guide for 300 birr for the day, his name is Abdul and his number is: 091-574-0864.  It was very hot so start early, then take the afternoon off before resuming.  The last place he took us was to the wild hyena feeding station.  Tammy and I both feed these hyenas.  It was pretty scary but we would have regretted not trying it.  Today our flight was cancelled from Dire Dawa to Addis Ababa  but they put us on a flight 3 hours later.  We had to hang out in an unairconditioned hotel lobby.  The cooler indoor temp was 34 Celsius.  Now we back in a nice clean hotel in Addis, Afroland.  I think we will be Sleepless in Ababa tonight.  Solomon will pick us up tomorrow at 10:00 local time (1:00 Mountain time) so Tammy can meet our daughter Sophie and then we will be able to take her for good!  Yeah......one of the last steps of many.  We can't wait.  Then we get about a week of solo bonding time with Sophie here in Addis before we bring her home for good.